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He is a freelance writer and is currently pursuing a career in professional basketball.Are you searching for a soul mate or unconditional love?Men, what if our approach to finding a wife was not fueled by an endless compatibility test, but by a relentless effort to transform ourselves into the best husbands we can be?In this process, we certainly do need to look for a woman with whom we share a certain level of chemistry and compatibility, as well as our core values—especially when it comes to an understanding of marriage itself. (Yes, this applies to the ladies, too, but here I want to address the guys specifically.) You know the woman I’m thinking of–that ideal someone who magically balances your flaws, completes your insufficiencies, and satisfies your deepest desires. In the confusing world of relationships, guys often make a crucial error in their approach to finding a wife: we operate under the assumption that we are destined to find our perfect soul-mate.But that does not mean that she is the perfect person for me–because such a person does not exist.
It’s a being-to-being recognition of that which is unconditional in each of us, our humanity, as if to lovingly say, “Namaste,” meaning: The God (or divine consciousness) within me salutes the God within you.The motives and reasons of the heart are unfathomable, writes Carson Mc Cullers: “The most outlandish people can be the stimulus for love… The beloved may be treacherous, greasy-headed, and given to evil habits.Yes, and the lover may see this as clearly as anyone else – but that does not affect the evolution of his love one whit.” “…the value and quality of any love is determined solely by the lover himself.Usually, we yearn for unconditional love because we didn’t receive it in childhood and fail to give it to ourselves.Of all relationships, parental love, particularly maternal love, is the most enduring form of unconditional love.