Dating a pakistani guy
If you find a woman who is religious and beautiful you have two out of four good qualities.
And if you find someone with all four qualities, you’ve hit the jackpot!
That’s why the Prophet ﷺ didn’t marry anyone when he was married to Khadijah (ra).
She was beautiful, she came from a good family, she was wealthy, and she had deen. For men, looks are incredibly important and most will openly and shamelessly say they want someone they are physically attracted to.
Men will look at a woman's current work in terms of how she may behave in their marriage or raise their future children. This is explained better further below (see: Personality).
Now, for men, marrying someone for her beauty "jamali ha" is basically love at first/second/third sight, and it happens - a marriage based on looks, I mean.
to be captured by outward attractions but to not fall in love with the ephemeral nature of beauty.
When men say they are looking for "religious" wives they each refer to very different attributes.We may deny that social ranking means nothing to us but there is a difference between marrying the daughter of a farmer and the daughter of a professor, or a woman who is a farmer and another who is the professor.Most Muslim men do not use status as a measure of success for potential wives but they do tend to look into it for reasons of prestige and influence.All subheadings are to be taken as general guidelines."A woman is married for four reasons, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her piety.